It's Simple, Just get married..

Marriage isn't bliss, it's not a walk down a well lit path on a clear starry night. There are no hand book or how to guides. Sure they sell things claming to be the answer to your problems. "Read my book, and you'll have the perfect marriage." There is no perfect marriage, just the one you make. But in the end all the help books and other crap.. it's all just a band aid if you can't get better as a couple and find each other not only as the other half to the equation that is marriage but also as individuals working together to make it though this sometimes hellashious life.

C__ and I sat down and had a long talk about us and how we need to work as a couple on being individuals.. If we were still planning on being a couple that is.
I told her I love spending time with her, and when I choose to do something different it's not my way of saying I don't want any time with her. We agreed it was time to start talking again. Not only about the bills, what's for dinner, why we're not going out or the everyday along with all that stuff we've have become so accustom to rambling to each other, all while neither of us truly listens to what the other is saying.

She had told me, she "plays happy" sometimes instead of showing how she feels truly..
We agreed together that doing that might be a better way to hurt what we're trying to have instead of helping it. So all and all we'll make it.. I have faith in this seemingly unwavering bond we share, It carries us and is what pulls us through even when sometimes yes the simple thing would be to walk out the door.

Sometimes the simple thing... isn't the right thing...